Men are from Mars…

Is it physically possible that every man through hundreds of years of programming are now genetically designed to be gigantic liars and or cheaters?  Because I’ve got to tell you, I’m really starting to feel that way.  This one is most likely going to be a pretty severe vent, so if you are a member of the aforementioned sex, or are not looking to listen to me rant and rave, you should move to another subject IMMEDIATELY.  Do not hesitate, do not pass go, scroll down to read about caterpillars or drunken nights or trips to the zoo.  *waves*

I wear my heart on my sleeve.  You do not have to end a sentence with “be honest” in order for me to tell you exactly how I feel about a situation.  I know that not all women are wired this way.  And yes, there is a difference between keeping something from someone, and flat out lying to them.  But I have to tell you ladies and gentlemen, BOTH SUCK.

I guess what I am saying is; I am sick and tired of being made to feel like people are not telling me things because of how I will react.  I am consciously getting better at this every single day.  So man the hell up.  And you know what?  If I get angry, did you ever stop to think that maybe you deserve it?

My trust comes easy.  Somebody once explained to me that some people have a trust tank and that some people have a trust line.  With a tank, you don’t trust someone until they have filled the tank and earned it.  With a line, you trust everyone, until they cross that line, and that’s it.  I have a line.  If you did not know this, now you do.

When you continuously lie to me before I’ve even thought about whether or not you are actually sorry for the first thing that you’ve attempted to pull over my eyes and have failed miserable, you are a shitty friend.  Just in case you were wondering.

I can’t even begin to tell you how many people this applies to right now.  Not just the one from today, so don’t think that I’m writing this solely about you.  But Please, MEN EVERYWHERE, MAN UP.  If you don’t want to talk about it, then either you did something wrong, or you have done something wrong in the near past that makes you worried about telling us something that will upset us.  OH!  And when we tell you nothing when you ask us what’s wrong, it’s because you don’t deserve our confidence, or the chance to make us feel better.

*steps off her soap box*